Nagging will not bring the solution.

So today my old time friend who is married for three years came to visit me at the family house and during her visit ,she was complaining bitterly about how it was not easy for her to combine career and her marriage and how she is fed up , how she is angry she got married earlier , how she is not happy she is combining career and marriage , she was saying alot of things which lasted for hours.., so I asked her, so what does she think is the solution to everything she is complaining about ever since she came in , she said she has no idea..

Nagging is not what is going to bring solutions to a problem , that was the first thing I told her, nagging from now till tommorow is not what will bring the sudden solutions to the problems or challenges that anyone could be facing , one needs to get up and look for solutions instead of nagging..

Infact nagging would only lead to too much thoughts and that could lead to depression if not controlled , I had to sit her down and made her calm down first , then we now both discussed some solutions which could help her to be able to manage her career and marriage together without getting frustrated.. she was happy after the end of the day because I was able to open her mind towards possibilities of overcoming her challenges..

Nagging without actions will not bring solutions, it is action that will bring solutions to whatever challenges we are experiencing...

Please stop nagging , all you need to do is stand up and take actions...

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