Let love lead

Life, love and relationships can be intertwined but patience and love can help you scale through all.

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There were two young adults in relationships, it so happened that both parties were very supportive to their families but that of the lady was most pronounced than that of the guy because she had access to more funds as luck would have it, each time she's asking for assistance from her guy, it isn't forthcoming because the guy hardly goes a month without borrowing to run through each passing month.

It got so bad that he had no savings and the reality of starting a family hits him from all angles and at that point, it was blatant to him that saving was very important to prepare for marriage, at same time look for a new job so he can earn more inorder to take care of his proposed family he's planning to start. The complaints didn't stop but unknowingly to her, he was giving his all and won't complain when she's nagging so hard, all he does is to apologize for not meeting her expectations and within him look for a way to better his standard of living to enable him do more for her.

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While the challenges were on, he kept on trying to get solution but to no avail, dip down inside him, he was dieing of not satisfying her love but she wouldn't see through him because in the mix of pains and difficult times he tries by all means to keep his smiles.

Months passed and the day for wedding finally came and it was a super fantastic day for him because he was getting married to the love of his life with high hopes as the bible says, he that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the lord, so he was with high shoulders believing what the sculpture had said, in all she never stopped praying for her finance turned husband for a moment and had so much confidence in him.

After several months into marriage, he then secured a new job and all the waiting and pushing then seem like a second as the job was handed over to him by God himself, the job was everything he had hoped for because the working conditions were next to none, from that point on, he showered her with so much love that she sometimes doubt if it was even possible for one to be loved the way she was been loved.

Most times, people want you to see through them but it's impossible as you have built a wall that won't allow you to see through them, people are really going through a lot and still wear smiles everywhere and everyday, kindly show love with some kind and sweet words.

Lessons:

• Waiting is never forever.
• Don't give up on anyone.
• Patience is a virtue
• Love is a beautiful thing.