Love- matter of the heart❤️
How can you keep playing with your heart like this?
Love is really a deep thing, it's sweet too when you fall in love with someone who loves you back, love shouldn't be forced, when it's been forced it's no more love but pity.
Over the years I have learnt a lot, I am a kind of person that loves easily, but I have learnt one thing never to force it if I'm not getting back the energy I am giving it means I need to opt out.
But wait.........
It's easier said than done, it's not easy to opt out that way because you are still in love, it is not easy to leave a relationship even when the other person is not doing what is right, I can remember my last relationship, the guy cheated, he doesn't hide his phone from me when we started, I was free to use his phone anytime anyday but later he started hiding his phone from me, I started noticing, then called his attention to it, he said there was nothing and it was just a normal thing, I said okay ooo but I was not satisfied, because it was becoming a habit, even when he calls sometimes he would go outside, then I asked him if he is cheating and he said NO .
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Few months passed, I was not comfortable anyone, he changed his password and I got the new password he changed it to, one day I decided to check when he wasn't around, Lol and behold!!! This guy dey cheat with the friend he called bestie, woww😂,I didn't say anything because it was difficult to Leave the relationship at that moment, but I already gave up on the relationship at that point, I already left in my heart, I gave it another 8months before I finally moved on, after 8months he was still cheating with the same and I had to shock him with what I knew, he couldn't say anything he was just begging, who begging help? I left him the moment I told him what he was doing, for over a year he kept begging but I already moved on.
Love is a matter of the heart and you should deal diligently, don't rush into it, I actually rushed into it without getting to know him well before starting anything, and I rushed out, thank God it's just relationship and not marriage, what would I have done? A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage, be wise.
How can you keep playing with your heart, give it some space, let it heal, don't jump from one relationship to another just because you heard I love you, how authentic is that word, alot of people just make use of it without knowing what it really means, maybe just to get down with you and leave, be careful, relax, enjoy life, give love time, my mentor will say "Test every love with time" if it stands the test of time then you will know what true love is.
Heal first, heal.... Don't play with your heart, the right person will come when you least expect it and will stay till old age.
Thanks for reading, I love you 🥰🥰
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