Accusation!
A husband has many responsibilities. Making a living is not his only responsibility. Rather, it is one of his responsibilities. I am not saying that it is only the husband's responsibility to earn money. Wives can also earn extra money by working outside if they want. But if anyone doesn't want it, it's her own business. This should not be emphasized.
There are many girls who do not feel comfortable working outside. Sometimes they cannot adapt themselves to unfamiliar environment. They panic in unfamiliar environments. So is it okay to force me to go to a place where I don't feel comfortable?... No, it shouldn't.
But many are doing so. Many husbands have this complaint after marriage. They complain that their wives are not aware of their career prospects. But their wives do not feel comfortable in this regard. Sometimes husbands get frustrated about this matter. But it is not appropriate to force the wife to do so. Everyone has individual freedom. It is illegal to force someone to do something.
Just as the husband stays out all the time to earn money, wives doing all the housework. Cooking for all, chid care, other ancillary work etc they do all for day long. It is normal for a husband to come home from the office after a long day and expect extrs care from his wife. Wives can expect the same.
This does not mean that you have to follow the same routine every day. If a wife can serve her husband five days a week, husbands can take care of their wives two days a week. Then no one else will have any complaint. Everyone has to compromise more or less to stay together. Compromising does not mean losing. One of the reasons for the loss of relationship is ego. Many people think that ego and self-respect are the same thing. But not really. There is a big difference between ego and self-respect. We should embrace self-respect and completely reject ego. Thus a relationship get fulfilled.