Family is everything

Hey Asian people,warm greetings from me Arveno. I want to sharing my little big family to participating weekly @asean.hive challenge in Family Fun Time that you can check here. I dont know it is just little compared with many people and it is not a little too. First of all i will introduce myself in this content. I am the older son from 4 brothers. And I am descendant from Chinese family but i think from my grandparents the chinese culture seems mixing with Indonesian culture. I am from Indonesia, Southeast asia country which is i am minority in there. But, it is okay this country is really good and right now it is safe for us at least. And talking about family. I feels like Family is everything for me after i am having a kid. It is like i am changing my perspective about family. When i was younger i dont care much about family things. Kinda annoying me since i am a rebel son that want to prove myself that i can do better than my parents. Especially when i am first born and having 4 brothers. I need to be a good example for them. And this thought made me not close with my family back then. But i am not that far. I am still living in my parents house till i am marriage. But,yeah mostly i am not going home. Usually i am staying in my friends house.

While i am growing up, slowly i am going closer to my family. Especially i am work in big city and almost my family still in my hometown. And sometimes i am missing the vibes in my house. Maybe when i am missing them that make me getting closer to my family. My parents especially. And after i am married, I am decided to living in Big city because as i said in my content before, The opportunity is bigger and my wife getting job that paid well in big city. And after i got son, i realized that family is matter and it is very important for me at least. I am often thinking that i will growing old and i think i will missing my kid so much when i am old. Thats thought made me having emphaty to my parents and my parents in law. I think bringing my son to them will make them happy and since they both know that their kid growing well and can facing the world will make them proud and happy too.

Like in the last holiday, finally we can gathering with complete family. After pandemic we are really hard to gathering with completed like that. Mostly caused by sick or having another plans. And in this year holiday we can barely made it while my parents still alive and i am very very hoping that my parents can accompany me in very long time. I dont know what i am feeling after they are gone even though i realized that human definitely die. But sometimes i wish they will live forever. And in this holiday we are eating out in some restaurant and having good time there. Having conversation about many thinks like money,life,health,and many more.
My mom especially love this event more because i know that my mom is very like with having many people in her side. Usually in home town, the only kid that living with my parents is just my little brother since he is not married yet. And i think until my parents die my little brother needed to be in my parents side. It is better when having someone younger in my parents house just in case if having some problems that need manpower or if something bad happened, my little brother can help as fast as possible.

And now talking about my little family, i am very grateful that i got son that really nice and not naughty at all. He is the one that keep me having big spirit for facing my hard life especially after the pandemic break out. The economic is going to downhill and i am not lying to myself that i got the effect too. Many business that i working on it going broke one by one. And what can i do is still shifting to make money. Going do one think after another think that can adding some little money to my cashflow until the economic going stable. Luckily my still having job that can get paid monthly. That made our little family still survive till now.

What i do right now after realizing that time is ticking to fast especially when live in the big city is i will having more time to accompany and teaching my son about life. Since i am selfemployed i an teach my son after he school and it will be the best feeling for me to still getting close with my son. I think my time with my son is very limited. When he growing up and reaching teenager, he will having new friends to hang out and he will very busy with study and it will make he does not have time with me and my wife anymore. Thats why for now i really really care about that that i am spending with my son. And i have plan that i will adding one more kid to my little family. I know that the economic is not good and my financial is not stable. But, i think God will give me ways to raising a kid if He allowed me to take care another kid. And hopefully i still getting close to my big family too.

So, guys this is my content based on my big little family. I am hoping that my grammar is not too bad and i am still learning about writing with good grammar and english since my mother language is not english. And for the reader thank you for the read and if you want to say something you can drop in comment section.I hope you guys enjoying my content. Best Regards from Arveno