[WE106] Weekend-Engagement concept (How I handle conflicts, Diplomacy is our best tool.)

Hello The Weekend Community!

I send you a warm greeting.

It is a pleasure for me to share with all of you in this weekend engagament, today I come to participate in the initiative carried out by @galenkp and I come to talk about conflict management from my personal point of view.

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Since the beginning of the foundation of the world and of our societies, conflicts have always been present; conflicts are part of our human nature. In several opportunities we have been active or passive subjects of some conflict.

Many times we focus on conflicts as problems and negative situations in our lives, allowing ourselves to be dragged by them and making them part of our intimate lives.

Conflicts are born and have their nature by reason, criteria and the own thinking of each human being, that is to say, we act as we think and we cannot expect others to act and think as we do. Each criterion is composed or influenced by a truth that we believe to be absolute, however, like almost everything else, truth is also relative and perishes when another truth appears and is proven.

A truth is true until another truth proves that the other is a lie.

Based on this principle, how do I personally handle conflicts?

As I mentioned before, conflicts are part of our life, but I am a person who faces problems head on with a passive attitude. How is this possible? It is simple, by making use of the best tool that all human beings have. Reasoning and diplomacy.

Diplomacy is the most effective tool in conflict resolution. To approach a conflict aggressively from the front can aggravate the conflict because it will make tension reign and the conflict will be greater. But if diplomacy is used, it is more likely that the conflict can be brought to an end in a much shorter period of time and without loss.

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Avoiding a conflict may prolong the outbreak of the conflict because when we know that there is a problem we have only 2 options which are to address it or learn to live with it.

Hearing the other person's opinion, establishing midpoints of dialogue and negotiation, evaluating gains and establishing losses is part of the strategy of diplomatic negotiation but it is also the most effective thing we can do to effectively manage conflicts of any kind, work, family, personal and / or love.

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I personally recommend to all my readers a book called The Art of War by Sun Tzu. This book is a manual of military warfare that contains a lot of information which can be applicable in our daily lives, it is also a book that leaves us great teachings and tips to learn how to deal with conflicts and emerge victorious from conflicts.

Dear friends, thank you very much for reading me.

Author@apolo1
CountryVenezuela
PhotographyRedmi Note 9
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Category:#WEEKEND-ENGAGEMENT #life

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Hi @apolo1

Thanks for your submission. I think being diplomatic does go a very long way when you tackle issues, but I do think it depends on the situation whether you need to have a passive or assertive approach. There is a wide spectrum of different types of people and as a result, the reactions can also be varied. This is actually why knowing the people that you work with is helpful because you would be able to guage which is the best method to deal with certain situations.

Thanks for taking part

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Hello @andrasita greetings ❤️, thank you very much for visiting my post. I am glad to share with all of you here.

Indeed it is true what you say, each situation requires a decision making according to the conflict. As you have mentioned, each person has a different way of thinking and therefore of acting. Knowing the problem and the people involved in it is key in resolving the conflict.

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Hola muchas gracias por su valioso apoyo ❤️ exitos y bendiciones en lo alto para ustedes.

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