π‘΄π’Šπ’π’…π’‡π’–π’ π‘³π’Šπ’—π’Šπ’π’ˆ

Thoughtfulness is a very intentional practice, it takes self-awareness to be a very thoughtful person.

Being a sensitive person, one thing that has helped me stay thoughtful in words and deeds is the golden rule which says "do unto others what you want them to do to you", if I don't want to be treated in an ill-mannered way, I surely wouldn't treat someone that way.

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Another way I've strived to spread thoughtfulness in my life is treating myself exactly the way I want others to treat me, I show myself a little kindness, I adore myself, I love myself and I speak positivity into my life, visions and goals in life, I celebrate my little wins, share my what I'm grateful for on a daily basis ,because this is a reflection of how I want people to treat me too, so I set the pace and they follow.

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This has led to a lot of positive outcome, as I have heard people admiring my ability to create happiness for myself, and my self-sufficiency.

Talking about spreading thoughtfulness while interacting with others, I am one who love to listen attentively to anyone expressing themselves, even if I have a different opinion, I do not interrupt them, this make them feel respected and heard and then I respectfully air my own view to them.

I recall a time a friend of my called me in the middle of the night asking if I have time, that she wanted to talk, to be honest, I was feeling very sleepy but I knew that would make her feel lighter, so I sacrificed my sleep to listen to her vent and rant, it did make her feel better, knowing she had someone who could listen to her attentively without judging her, after which I gave my two cent on the matter and we just laughed over everything through out the night.

I have also been a source of encouragement to my family and friends, I am good at cheering anyone around up, I love to push them beyond their limit and I love it when they do things they actually wouldn't have done on their own without a push from me. This has endeared many to me, they love being around me, for I stand for positive vibes.

Another way I strive to spread thoughtfulness, is my ability to commend people around me for their efforts and I give sincere compliment about their looks, attributes or quality which makes them feel better. I am also thoughtful in showing kindness, it takes nothing for me to open the door for the next person, and when I know I've wronged someone, I take the initiative to make peace and all of these have improved my human interaction and peaceful cohabitation.

We all can make the world a better place, it begins with you and I, in our effort to be intentional, in the way we practice mindfulness, in the way we spread kindness through the little things we do.


All images used are mine.


π•­π–Šπ–‹π–”π–—π–Š yπ–”π–š π–‘π–”π–›π–Š 𝖆𝖓yπ–™π–π–Žπ–“π–Œ 𝖔𝖗 𝖆𝖓yπ–”π–“π–Š, π–‘π–”π–›π–Š yπ–”π–šπ–—π–˜π–Šπ–‘π–‹ π–‹π–Žπ–—π–˜π–™.

Aπ–’π–Žπ–Š,
ᡀʰᡉ ᡍⁱʳˑ ʷⁱᡗʰ ᡃ ᡇⁱᡍ ʰᡉᡃʳᡗ ❀




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You have Made me think about something very important: if we want something from life, other person, etc we must to cultivate the same energy in ourselves and only after that ask the world give us in return the same energy.

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That's just the secret of mindful living, we show others how we should be treated.

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Kind regards @amiegeoffrey
You share with us a substantial and nourishing publication, succulent in its reflective contribution, in which you accentuate and qualify the valuable power of the balance between selfhood and otherness. Our being, our selfhood, transmits to the outside what we are, what we have, what we contribute, and it is our lights or shadows that flow in the daily life of socialization.. It makes sense, the need of the other in our way, we are social beings and to this we owe ourselves. We congratulate your sensitive solidarity, as a practicum of your actions of consideration, is to achieve a long wisdom that contributes to a harmonious and balanced evolution, in a group transforming growth.
We are very grateful that you have joined our weekly initiative, honored by your valuable reflective considerations, opening and socializing passages and experiences of your existence, our gratitude. Health and well-being to you and yours !LADY
marilour

Saludos cordiales @amiegeoffrey
Nos compartes una sustanciosa y nutritiva publicaciΓ³n, suculenta en su aporte reflexivo, en la que acentΓΊas y matizas el valioso poder del equilibrio entre la mismidad y la alteridad. Nuestro ser, nuestra mismidad, transmite al exterior lo que somos, lo que tenemos, lo que aportamos, y son nuestras luces o sombras las que fluyen en la cotidianidad de la socializaciΓ³n. Tiene sentido, la necesidad del otro en nuestro camino, somos seres sociales y a ello nos debemos. Felicitamos tu sensible solidaridad, como practicum de tus acciones de consideraciΓ³n, es lograr una larga sabidurΓ­a que contribuya a una evoluciΓ³n armΓ³nica y equilibrada, en un crecimiento grupal transformador.
Estamos muy agradecidos de que te hayas sumado a nuestra iniciativa semanal, honrados por tus valiosas consideraciones reflexivas, abriendo y socializando pasajes y vivencias de tu existencia, nuestra gratitud. Salud y bienestar para ti y los tuyos.
marilour

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This is a very thoughtful comment and I'm glad you took your time to read me. Thank you!

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Amie! That is so true. Treating yourself how you want others to treat you. It’s more like it will be really hard for a visitor to come to your house and make the place dirty if you have a clean home. I really get this part and I think I should imbibe it in my life. I mean I already do that but maybe be very intentional about it. Thank you Amie❀️

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I'm glad this post resonates so much with you. Thanks for coming around.

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