THE WRONG APPROACH PRODUCES THE WRONG RESULT.

Approach matters alot in life. The way we approach things or people determines the results we get from.

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Welcome to my blog again. I hope we all had a great day.
Someone may do something wrong and get away with it, and another person may do even worse and still get away with it. But it may surprise us to know that yet another person may do something bad, not even to bad as such, yet will receive the punishment of his/her life. Why? The approach that each of them use determines the results that they all get.

Approach helps us to scale through somethings that maybe designed to be harmful or something design to bring us down. But when we use the right approach to facing such problem, we will end up coming out of that situation successfully and stronger.

Over the years I have learnt that it may not even be money or power or even strength that will help me, but just by having the right approach to things will help me out. After facing alot of things in life from different angles, I now know better that the my words are a powerful weapon when it comes to dealing with people.

WORDS LIKE:
Sorry.
Please!
Forgive me.
Have mercy on me.
I never meant to hurt you.
I love you.
You are a darling.
You are one a in million.

And the list continues. Some of us may think that words like- l love you, you are one in a million, you are a darling and stuff like that is only meant for lovers. No! I use it everyday for my kids, mu customers, clients, visitors, neighbors and any one that comes around me. I have used it to calm situations down. I have used some of the words to walk pass where others are not permitted to pass.

In life, it is better we understand that we are nothing, and we can drop dead at any moment. Because of that, my approach to things and people around will change. When I know that this person may not be there tomorrow, then I will treat him/her with some respect. It doesn't even matter whether we are senior, elder, or maybe we are placed in a high position. We May not be in that position tomorrow. That same person may even be placed in a higher position tomorrow better than the one we are occupying today.

We have a very big responsible to each other, which is respect and use kind words when necessary.

Remain blessed.