Oye a tu esposa (Listen to your wife)
Greetings, Hive community. In this opportunity I would like to comment on a topic that is rarely spoken about in the messages referring to the relationship between spouses, and that is the duty of the husband to listen to his wife, that is to say, to pay attention to what she says.
Paying attention is not just sitting back and letting her say what she feels or thinks, but meditating on the words that occupy the wife's mind. This duty is part of spousal obligations, for the wife is an indispensable part of a marriage, a relationship in which both parties are necessary.
It is always said that the husband is the head of the home, which is not untrue, but it is often omitted that the wife is the husband's suitable help, indicating that the husband needs help, and if he needs help it is because he is not self-sufficient.
Wives make mistakes, like everyone else, but that does not take away their authority when it comes to expressing an opinion on any matter affecting the family, either in the administration of economic resources, the disposition of family assets, the relationships of the family members, and the activities carried out by each of the members of the family nucleus.
The wife, in general, knows how difficult it is to be able to fill the stores, knows the needs of the children and the husband, even if he does not recognize them, so does her best to satisfy as many needs with the financial resources at her disposal.
Women are more observant in some aspects that we men do not pay attention to, and that survival instinct makes them uneasy with some issues, for which they make the effort to communicate their feelings, but rarely are they listened to.
A good husband should pay attention to the words of his wife, even though many times they are only appreciations that do not represent an imminent danger, but the fact of listening to them, produces in the wife that feeling of being appreciated Who does not like to be taken into account?
In the Bible there are many cases of wives who kept silent before their husbands, for fear of not being listened to, there are also cases of manipulation of the wives towards their husbands for letting them direct some matters that corresponded to them, being both cases far from the model of marital relationship that the Lord wants us to have.
Sarah asked Abraham to send Hagar away, which at first glance would seem to be a matter of jealousy, but Sarah had already been putting up with Hagar's bad attitude out of love for Abraham, since Hagar was the mother of Abraham's only son, until Sarah was able to give birth to Isaac, Abraham's legitimate son.
As can be imagined, the family relationship was very awkward before the birth of Isaac, but it got worse when Isaac was born, because Ishmael mocked and harassed him, which activated Sarah's maternal instinct, asking Abraham to send them away. It is noteworthy that Sarah did not take justice into her own hands, did not usurp her husband's authority, but always showed respect and subjection for her husband, so she could not receive less than consideration in this case.
At Sarah's request, Abraham inquired of the Lord, who answered him, Hearken unto thy wife (Genesis 21:12), and he did so. This is the right attitude of every husband: Pay attention to what his wife says, consult with the Lord and put the answer into practice.
Nowadays, we see many cases of dictator husbands who do not listen to their wives, for the simple fact that they look at them as housewives and not as their complements, as their own flesh, when the reality is that a wife is a very valuable gift from the Creator, so much so that He tells us to honor her as the most fragile vessel, so listening to them is not enough, but it is a good start.
We also see cases of wives who try to usurp the husband's position, which is not right, because it distorts the whole family relationship.
To you, who have read this text, I want to wish you be a good husband, who treats his wife as an irreplaceable treasure, who is a good father of a family and shows his children the model of a good husband; and to you woman, be a wife like Sarah, so respectful and loving with your husband, that it is not possible for him to refuse your requests, when they are fair.
If you liked this writing, share it in your networks, because it is time that marriages are strengthened and each one fulfills their role, so that children have good role models and we have families according to the heart of the Lord.
Saludos, comunidad de Hive. En esta oportunidad quiero comentarles acerca de un tema que poco se habla en los mensajes referidos a la relación entre esposos, y es el deber del esposo de oír a su esposa, es decir, de poner atención a lo que dice.
Poner atención no es solo sentarse y dejar que diga lo que siente o piensa, sino meditar en las palabras que ocupan la mente de la esposa. Este deber forma parte de las obligaciones conyugales, ya que la esposa es parte imprescindible de un matrimonio, relación en la cual ambas partes son necesarias.
Siempre se dice que el esposo es la cabeza del hogar, lo que no es falso, pero muchas veces se omite que la esposa es la ayuda idónea del esposo, indicando que el esposo necesita ayuda, y si necesita ayuda es porque no es autosuficiente.
Las esposas se equivocan, como toda persona, pero eso no le quita autoridad a la hora de opinar acerca de algún asunto que afecte a la familia, bien en la administración de los recursos económicos, la disposición de los bienes del patrimonio familiar, las relaciones de los miembros de la familia, y las actividades realizadas por cada uno de los integrantes del núcleo familiar.
La esposa, por lo general, sabe lo difícil de poder llenar los almacenes, conoce las necesidades de los hijos y del esposo, aunque este no las reconozca, así que hace lo posible para satisfacer la mayor cantidad de necesidades con los recursos financieros que tiene a su disposición.
Las mujeres son más observadoras en algunos aspectos en los que los hombres no ponemos atención, y ese instinto de supervivencia hace que se inquieten con algunos asuntos, por los que hacen el esfuerzo de comunicar sus sentimientos, pero pocas veces son escuchadas.
Un buen esposo debe poner atención a las palabras de su esposa, aunque muchas veces sean solo apreciaciones que no representan un peligro inminente, pero el hecho de escucharlas, produce en la esposa ese sentimiento de sentirse apreciada ¿A quién no le agrada saberse tomado en cuenta?
En la biblia hay muchos casos de esposas que callaban ante sus esposos, por temor a no ser escuchadas, también hay casos de manipulación de las esposas hacia los esposos por dejarles dirigir algunos asuntos que le correspondían a ellos, estando ambos casos lejos del modelo de relación matrimonial que el Señor desea que tengamos.
Sara le pidió a Abraham que despidiera a Agar, lo que a simple vista parecería un asunto de celos, pero ya Sara venía aguantando la mala actitud de Agar por amor a Abraham, ya que Agar era madre del hijo único de Abraham, hasta que Sara pudo dar a luz a Isaac, el hijo legítimo de Abraham.
Como es de imaginarse, la relación familiar era muy incómoda antes del nacimiento de Isaac, pero se puso peor cuando este nació, porque Ismael se burlaba de él y lo acosaba, lo que activó el instinto materno de Sara, pidiendo a Abraham que los despidiera. Es de hacer notar que Sara no tomó la justicia en sus manos, no usurpó la autoridad de su esposo, sino que siempre mostró respeto y sujeción por su esposo, por lo que no podía recibir menos que consideración en este caso.
Ante el pedido de Sara, Abraham consultó al Señor, quien le respondió: Oye a tu mujer (Génesis 21:12), y así hizo. Esta es la actitud correcta de todo esposo: Poner atención a lo que dice su esposa, consultarlo con el Señor y poner en práctica la respuesta.
En la actualidad, vemos muchos casos de esposos dictadores que no escuchan a sus esposas, por el simple hecho que las miran como amas de casa y no como sus complementos, como su propia carne, cuando la realidad es que una esposa es un regalo muy valioso de parte del Creador, tanto que nos dice que la honremos como vaso más frágil, por lo que no basta con escucharlas, pero es un buen inicio.
También vemos casos de esposas que tratan de usurpar la posición del esposo, lo que no está bien, porque distorsiona toda la relación familiar.
A ti, que has leído este texto, quiero desearte que seas un buen esposo, que trate a su esposa como un tesoro insustituible, que sea un buen padre de familia y muestre a sus hijos el modelo de un buen esposo; y a ti mujer, que seas una esposa como Sara, tan respetuosa y amorosa con tu esposo, que no le sea posible negarse a tus peticiones, cuando estas sean justas.
Si te gustó este escrito, compártelo en tus redes, porque es tiempo que los matrimonios se fortalezcan y cada uno cumpla con su rol, para que los hijos tengan buenos modelos a seguir y tengamos familias conforme al corazón del Señor.
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